10/3/24
💎Dave’s Diamond: “Grief”💎
One of the best definitions of grief that I have come across is “the distance between expectations and reality.” Grief is the difference between “I thought this was going to happen” to “This has happened.” As popular psychologist Dr. John Delony describes, it is the difference between pictures and reality: I had pictured life going this way, but reality turned out to be much different. It is in this dichotomy that we find the emotion of grief. Grief can happen in a variety of situations and circumstances. We grieve the loss of loved ones, pets, and jobs. The emotion of grief can settle in as a result of an accident, injury, transition, or life change. It happens to all of us, regardless of age, gender, or religious affiliation. There is a beautiful verse in 1 Thessalonians 4:13 that suggests as people of faith that we do not grieve like others, but rather we grieve with hope. The line between expectations and reality can be devastating and debilitating, but when you can look ahead and see something greater in the distance, we are given hope. Will I ever get through this? Will this pain ever come to an end? Will my sorrow ever subside? As people of faith we can answer yes because hope moves us forward a little step at a time and a little closer to the coming of the Lord. Perhaps you are experiencing a season of grief. As you drive through that fog of despair, remember that the sun will rise and the clouds will subside. Allow the hope of God to continue to move you forward with God’s power and peace. Stay strong and encouraged in your faith. --Dave
9/19/24
💎Dave’s Diamond: “Picked”💎
“I’ll take Jim…I’ll take Steve…I’ll take Brian…I’ll take Jeff” and back and forth it went while I stood in line waiting for my name to be called. And with each name called that wasn’t David, my posture slipped and my emotions dipped. We all have been there, picked over like a bruised banana in the produce bin. Maybe it wasn’t for a kickball game, like my experience years ago. Perhaps you were picked over for a promotion, raise, award, scholarship, job, or relationship.
It might surprise you, but you were God’s first pick. That’s right! We are told in Ephesians 1:4, “God picked you before the creation of the world.” This is an incredible verse and I invite you to allow these words to sink deep within your soul. Before the mountains were formed and the rivers were put in motion, before the trees were planted and the sun set in place, God had you in mind. You matter, you are significant, you are worth it!
It’s easy to get down and discouraged and fall into despair. But, be encouraged by these words in Ephesians. God called your name and he called you first! --Dave
💎Dave’s Diamond: “Worth”💎
I mowed up a $20 dollar bill last week. Apparently it had fallen out of my pocket and I saw it just a fraction of a second before it disappeared under the mowing deck. By then it was too late to back up and reverse my course. The bill ran through the blades, the shoot, and into the hopper. I thought for sure it was a goner, shredded into oblivion. But to my surprise, as I opened the hopper to empty the grass, I found two of the larger pieces of the bill and was able to tape them back together and trade it in for a fresh bill at the bank. You see, even though it was battered and bruised, torn in two and written off, it still had value.
Ever feel this way? Ever feel like you have been run over by a mower? Ran through a shoot and hopper? Written off and depleted? Most of us have been there! Perhaps a relationship has left you this way, or a job, a DUI, financial mistake, or a lapse of judgment. The great thing about the Lord is that he is in the redemption business. Just when you think your life is over and your value has been compromised we are reminded, “In Christ we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our sins, according to the riches of his grace” (Ephesians 1:7).
This verse gives us hope as it reminds us that we have value and worth and that we have been redeemed by the Lord. Don’t let the world keep you down. May these words penetrate ours heart and soul as the Lord puts us back together and gives us value and worth. --Dave 9/12/24
9/6/2024
8/29/24
💎Dave’s Diamond: “Happy Anniversary”💎
This coming Sunday, September 1 marks the beginning of our 15th year together. Vicki and I are blessed to be a part of our church family and I am honored to serve as your pastor. I love my role as your pastor and the way that I have been invited into your lives through funerals, weddings, baptisms, hospital calls, counseling sessions, children’s and youth ministry, small groups, committee meetings, and worship. During the past 14 years, you have helped me grow as a husband, father, and pastor and I hope I have reciprocated this in a small way. Since graduating from seminary in 1996, I have been very fortunate to be apart of two amazing churches: the first in Jamestown, North Dakota, where I served from 1996-2010 and the second being the one here in Billings.
The Bible verse that comes to mind as we mark another anniversary milestone is from Paul’s letter to the church in Philippi. He writes, “I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now” (Philippians 1:3-5). Like Paul, I feel that we have developed a great partnership in mission and ministry. It’s exciting to see our church grow, both in numbers and in spiritual depth. One of my goals this fall is to help you grow in your personal relationship with Christ and my Sunday school class and sermons will be geared toward this purpose. I am excited for what lies ahead and appreciate the ministry we share in Christ. Happy anniversary! --Dave
8/22/24
8/15/24
💎Dave’s Diamond: “Frustrations”💎
💎Dave’s Diamonds: “Recharge”💎
Our family just returned from a fun weekend in Denver where we took in a concert, rode scooters around the downtown district, swam at the hotel, and ate at several restaurants not found in Billings. The trip, as with most trips, was not without a hiccup along the way. Our vehicle’s alternator gave out just as we pulled into the hotel’s parking lot on Friday evening. The first indication that something was haywire was when the battery light flashed intermittently for about ten minutes. The flash gave way to a solid light, followed by other signs that things were not going in the right direction. The headlights began to fade, the car radio stopped working, and the power windows went kaput. I leaned over at Vicki and said, “We are losing our alternator.” “How do you know?” she asked. “Because unfortunately I have experienced this before.” The alternator has a very important role—to recharge the battery while the engine is running. When the alternator goes, so does the battery, and everything that is supplied by its power—windows, lights, radio, door locks, power steering, brakes, transmission, etc. No alternator, no go.
What powers your life? What recharges your battery? There is a great verse in Psalm 23 where we are told, “He restores my soul” (Psalm 23:3). Jesus serves a purpose much like the alternator in your vehicle, supplying power and energy to our soul. Trust in God’s power, provisions, and promises and He will supply us with the energy and strength to make it through the day. --Dave
7/18/24
7/11/24
7/4/24
💎Dave’s Diamonds: “Traveling Jesus”💎
6/13/24
6/6/24
At our Vacation Bible School program on Monday I was talking to the kids about super powers, specifically asking the question, “If you could have one super power what would it be?” The answers came fast and furious: the ability to fly, the ability to teleport myself, the ability to climb buildings, and the ability to run really, really fast. I love kids and the imaginations they have. Of all the answers that one might expect from elementary aged kids, one response surprised me. A little girl said, “I wish for the super power of super kindness.” What a neat response! Imagine if we lived in a world where our number one wish was to be more kind. Imagine the difference we could make with our kindness. Unfortunately, we live in a world that is divided politically, socially, and economically. Many are easily offended by what is said, whether it has any merit or not. The Bible in Ephesians 4:32 encourages us to extend kindness, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Like this young child, may we strive for kindness and see what kind of difference we can make. It will not only help others, but also benefit us. –Dave
5/30/24
5/23/24
💎Dave’s Diamonds: “A Greater Love”💎
5/16/24
5/2/24
Do you ever feel that your life is out of control? Ever feel as if you are barely hanging on? Our small group that meets on Sunday nights came across an incredible insight from scripture last Sunday evening. We were studying Daniel 4 where King Nebuchadnezzar had grown the Babylonian empire into the wealthiest, most powerful, and most sophisticated kingdom at the time. It was King Nebuchadnezzar who built the Hanging Gardens of Babylon for his wife, to help raise her spirits and alleviate her homesickness. These Gardens are identified as one of the Seven Wonders of the World. The King’s success and pride that build the great city of Babylon also led to his demise and fall and caused him to lose everything. We find him lost, confused, alone, and wayward as his kingdom begins to crumble.
There is a great nugget of truth that is found at the very end of this chapter. The scriptures tell us, “At the end of that time, I, Nebuchadnezzar, raised my eyes toward heaven, and my sanity was restored” (Daniel 4:34). What an remarkable passage that tells us of an incredible truth. When we take our eyes off of God and focus on our own selfish desires, chaos and confusion can rule our lives. Like the King we can become lost, discouraged, and disoriented. But when we look to God and find our source of hope and strength in the Lord, our sanity is restored. The calm and steady presence of the Lord gives us the ability to think and behave in a normal and rational manner. What a gift we have from the Lord. Remember to look up and find in God the one who can bring calm out of chaos and peace out of despair. Stay strong and encouraged in your faith. –Dave
4/25/24
💎Dave’s Diamonds: “The Fringe”💎
4/18/24
Have you ever quit something because it was just too hard? Maybe a job was too demanding, a sport too strenuous, or a relationship too challenging. Most of us have gotten to the point where we just can’t do it any longer. I worked as a commercial fisherman during my college years in Alaska and considered many times about giving up due to the long hours and difficult work. I have realized that these challenging times mold and shape us into who we are and prepare us in handling obstacles that come our way. Jesus found himself in a tough spot in the Garden of Gethsemane just prior to his arrest and crucifixion. He pleads with God, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done” (Luke 22:42). God’s gift of salvation for all of humanity was not only precured on the cross, but fought for in the Garden of Gethsemane. Imagine if Jesus gave up in the Garden and walked away from the hard road that was in front of him. Imagine if he said “I can’t do this any longer” and decided to go a different direction, an easier path. Jesus fought through these feelings and brought forth our salvation. Thanks be to God that Jesus didn’t say it was too hard, too demanding, or too strenuous. He got through the pain in order that we might experience the gain of new and eternal life. May we find a greater strength from the Lord who endured the cross and paid the price for our sins. Stay strong and encouraged in your faith. –Pastor Dave
4/4/24💎Dave’s Diamonds: “Get Through?”💎
Did you get through Easter? I have been asked this question several times in the past few days. Get through? I know what the intentions are with this question as Easter is a busy time for pastors with lots of people and activities in the church. Our Easter celebration here at FPC was incredibly fun and fulfilling. But, to use the phrase “get through” seems to suggest that Easter is something to endure, overcome, or even conquer. We get through an illness, a strenuous workout, or a difficult project at work. We get through a tough stretch in a relationship, a calculus class, or even completing our taxes. To “get through” suggests that we put whatever we are getting through in the rear view mirror of our lives and say good riddance to it. But should we get through Easter? As people of faith, we live with Easter hope and the power of the resurrection of Jesus every day. Instead of getting through Easter, I want to suggest that we are better off when we get to integrate Easter into our lives every day. Each day brings its own set of challenges and obstacles, and the Easter promise of our Risen Savior is there to guide and lead us. We are reminded of this incredible gift of God’s power in Ephesians 6:10, “Be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might.” Let’s not put Easter behind us; rather let’s allow Easter to direct our steps, enliven our spirits, and empower us with God’s abilities. Stay strong and encouraged in your faith. –Pastor Dave
“Spiritual Shape”
Most of us are fairly conscientious when it comes to our physical health. We try to watch what we eat and work to maintain a healthy lifestyle through exercise, diet, and rest. Some of you walk, run, bike, treadmill, swim, do cross fit, Pilates, yoga, aerobics, or lift weights. We are good at concentrating on our physical bodies, but do you ever think about exercising your spiritual muscles? The spiritual body, like the physical body, needs to be exercised. I find that unless the spirit is nurtured and stimulated, it is easy to become complacent in our walk with Jesus Christ. The season of Lent, the 40 days leading up to Easter, provides a good time to work on our spiritual lives. This season provides a time to reflect and renew our relationship with God and recommit our lives to the ministry and mission of Jesus Christ. With our physical bodies, we have to be intentional about going for a walk or getting to the gym. The same intentionality is true with the Spirit. Here are some ways I would like to encourage you to exercise your spiritual muscles during this special season:
* Daily Devotions: Take a few minutes each day to read some scripture and pray. We offer a free Lenten devotional to help with this exercise. You can also jump on the YouVersion Bible App that provides daily encouragement.
* Sunday school class– I am co-leading a class with Dr. Andrew Wingerson titled, “Living Your Best Life” as we explore ways to have a healthy life physically, spiritually, and mentally. Come to discover ways to live your best life.
* Sunday worship provides a good time to gather with others to be renewed in our faith. I am preaching a series titled, “Thy Will Be Done.” I have found that God’s way of doing things is far better than my own.
* Join one of our six Refuel small groups to grow closer to God and others or one of our other study groups. I hope you will take part in some of the things we offer to help promote your spiritual growth. Come and join us as we get into shape and grow in our relationship with God. I look forward to worshipping with you either in person on on-line on the next Lord’s Day.
Blessings,
Pastor Dave
3/28/24
💎Dave’s Diamonds: “Personal Invitation”💎
The news on that first Easter morning began to spread slowly through Jesus’ closest followers. The first women who came to the tomb to anoint the body of Jesus, went back to tell Peter and John. They in turn went back and told the other disciples. Two men who encountered Jesus on the road to Emmaus told others, who told others, who told others. There was no press conference, no Facebook post, no Instagram message, just by word of mouth from one person to the next. I have discovered the best way to share Jesus is